Archive for the ‘Hey Violet!’ Category
Hey Violet! … Divorce
Hey Violet, In the last four months I have gotten married and then filed for divorce. My soon to be ex-husband and I dated for two years. We were engaged for a year and then as soon as we got married he changed. He became a control freak almost the moment I moved in. He [...]
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Hey Violet! … Horrible child
Hey Violet, My 16 year old daughter has been acting up a lot. Lately she has a horrible attitude and answers back. We try to give her the best of everything, but she still acts out. She knows she is loved dearly. I have tried explaining to her that I want to be her best friend [...]
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Hey Violet! … Betrayal
Hey Violet, There is a guy I like. We started out having a great time together. We laughed a lot and he seemed really into me for the first few months. Then he grew more distant. Every now and then I’ll pop over on a Saturday with breakfast in bed or a gift that kind of [...]
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Hey Violet! … Anger and hostility
Hey Violet, How does one go about letting go of anger and hostility. I don’t want to get into specifics, but there is a person I care for a great deal whom I have a hard time being around because of past hurts. They have made a significant effort to address the personality defects that led to [...]
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Hey Violet! … Photos of exes
Hey Violet, I was helping clean out my boyfriend’s house the other day. He came across pictures of him and his ex. Instead of trashing them he put them in the bottom of a drawer thinking I didn’t see the pics. Is this ok? I’m freaking out. Does this mean he still loves her? I want to bring it up but don’t want [...]
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Hey Violet! … Fed up with my sister
Hey Violet, I am pretty mild mannered. My sister is a bully. She will give you the shirt off her back if you need her, but she becomes irrationally enraged over the most trivial stuff. Whenever the family gets together she argues the loudest and longest and then when people give up arguing back, she views [...]
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Hey Violet! … Finding male friends
Hey Violet, I am a woman 54 years old and want to have male friends but I have no clue where can I find them. Could you get some ideas please? Thanks. – Seeking male friends in Hackensack Hi Seeking, You don’t indicate whether or not you are looking for a romantic entanglement; so if your [...]
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Hey Violet! … Bullies
Hey Violet, I get made fun in school. A LOT. I get called weird by the popular girls because I don’t really like the same things they do. I guess I’d be considered a tomboy, but the boys make fun of me too. They say I am a lesbian, but this is not the case. Stuff [...]
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Hey Violet! … Dream job
Hey Violet, I came across a posting for my dream job. Everyone is telling me I should send in my resume and try for it. I don’t think I have a shot and it seems it would be a waste of my time and theirs. What do you recommend? Nervous in Fort Lee Hi Nervous, Fear [...]
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Hey Violet! … Rita
Dear Violet, I have a problem! Her name is Rita. What can I do? Anonymous in Edgewater Dear Dad, Stop bothering Mom. Love,
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